Encouragment

One of the strongest forms of motivation is encouragement. It helps to push forward during the tough times and shine bright during the good times. Encouragement can come in the form of words or actions. Something as simple as a high-five, pat on the back or a genuine smile can help to nudge someone closer to success. Can you think of a time when it made a difference that a supervisor/teacher/parent acknowledged your hard work and told you that you were moving in the right direction? I bet you can remember a few specifics about what you were doing and just how great it made you feel. I remember when I was about 15 years old and playing on a softball team - I wasn't very good - but my coach told me that I was important because I was left-handed and that if I kept practicing bunting that I would be even more important than I already was! Wow! My impression of my abilities totally changed, just because someone else recognized my potential and ENCOURAGED me to continue to improve. What can we do to encourage our kids, co-workers, spouse, etc.? Can you recognize potential in someone who is struggling? It only takes a minute to make a difference and acknowledge opportunity to make a difference in someone's perception of their abilities. Make it a goal to find someone to encourage - give yourself a deadline to get it done - go and make a difference! Deb Cupples, Sensei www.communitykarateandfitness.com